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A couple of you have e-mailed me and asked a similar question. One about attitude and one about wisdom in picking a mate. I am not really sure I would be the one to ask about picking a mate as I have yet to be successful at finding someone to be in my “love” life for any length of time. Although, I was married for 10 1/2 years, my husband really needed a loving and caring mother and not a wife.
Not every relationship is based off of soul mates, twin souls, twin flames, ect. When soul mates meet they are not always together in a relationship, but they do have a certain bond between them that is hard to break. There are so many variables to what one wants and what one needs in their life to complete their karmic wheel. You don’t always get what you want, but you are always given what you need. That can work for or against you depending on your attitude. You can honestly take inventory of why your relationships fail and accept that you have a problem. Yes, you have a problem. I will be the first to admit that I have a problem, which is, I have absolutley no problem attracting men, but I was never taught the differnece between love and lust. Over time I learned the difference, but that brought on a new set of problems and a different attitude. After my marriage ended, I was beginning middle-age, with young children. Men were more than willing to want me to be part of their life, but they didn’t want anything to do with my children. I have heard so many stupid excuses from men over my children, that I now have a whole new attitude.
I am still the same person I have always been, but situations with men, who have illogical meanings have made me aware that I am much happier hanging out with my kids, having fun and still having love in my life, than being involved with someone who is very selfish and self centered and lives in an irrational world all their own.
I am a loving and giving person, to everyone , until you give me a reason not to be. If men can’t accept the fact I have kids, with their own personality, wants and needs, then I don’t need them in my life. That is the wisdom that comes with relationships and time, in my world. Everyone has their own problems. What are yours?